Ensure an Age-Appropriate Amount of Sleep Each Night

Sleep: that mythical unicorn we keep hearing about but never actually see. If your nights are a montage of clock-watching, baby shushing, and googling 'how much sleep do kids actually need?', you’re in the right place. Let’s break down the bedtime circus and see if we can’t all catch a few more Zs—before the next round of 3 a.m. requests for water, stories, or existential conversations about monsters.

Consistent, age-appropriate sleep is like Miracle-Gro for tiny brains: it helps with memory, emotional regulation, and even immune strength. For parents, it’s the difference between feeling like a semi-functional adult and accidentally putting your keys in the fridge (again). Basically, good sleep = happier, healthier humans all around.

How to do it

  1. Check the recommended sleep chart for your child’s age. (Spoiler: it’s always more than you think.)

  2. Set a regular bedtime and stick to it as consistently as you stick to your coffee.

  3. Create a wind-down routine:

    • Dim the lights.
    • Turn off all screens.
    • Consider a calming story (preferably one without wild animal noises).
  4. Watch for sleepy signals such as:

    • Eye rubbing
    • Yawning
    • Staring off into space

    When you notice these signs, act quickly to start the bedtime routine.

  5. If all else fails, remember: tomorrow is another night.

Tips for Success:

  • Consistency is key—children thrive on predictable routines.
  • Avoid sugary snacks and stimulating activities close to bedtime.
  • Keep the sleep environment cool, quiet, and comfortable.
  • Be patient; establishing good sleep habits can take time.

When you start your own bedtime routine (brushing teeth, changing into pajamas).

Glance at the chart and mentally check if your kid is on track for sleep tonight.
Give yourself a silent high-five or whisper 'I’m crushing this parent thing' (even if you’re not sure you are).
Print or screenshot a quick reference chart of recommended sleep hours by age and stick it on the fridge.

When the reminder goes off each evening.

Announce 'bedtime countdown!' and start dimming the lights or playing calming music.
Do a dramatic, victorious tiptoe out of the room once the kid is down (bonus points for jazz hands).
Set an alarm or reminder on your phone for 30 minutes before your child’s ideal bedtime.

When your child asks for a story after pajamas are on.

Let your child pick one book and start reading.
Snuggle for a moment and tell yourself, 'We survived another day!'
Pick out two or three short, calming bedtime books and keep them by the bed.